First off.. I’d like to give mad props to the bloggers that blog everyday or even close to everyday.  I apparently am not one of those kinds of bloggers.  I really thought that I could do this 30 day challenge and complete it everyday, but life got in the way.. and there were days I plain didn’t want to!  So I’m going at my pace.  So there. 🙂

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they?

I’m sure I do have some.. but honestly nothing really comes to mind.  I can think of some things that annoy me about Fetlife.  There’s a submissive woman group.  This is all great, fine, and good…. except that going into this group is an enter at your own risk thing.  I guess it’s only a given when a group of women get together that there will be some drama… but I have never in my life ever seen such snarkiness.

I’ve seen people ask things that are kind of common sense, but they get treated like crap because they asked.  I personally think it’s wrong to be treated poorly because a person asked a question they didn’t know the answer to.  I think it goes back to the whole.. if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.  Just because someone knows the answer… just because many people know the answer doesn’t give anyone the right to act all superior.  Everyone was a beginner once.. and I think this is something a lot of people forget.

Don’t get me wrong, I see that all over Fetlife.. and it bothers me.  I just see it more in that particular group.  I tend to not go in that group that often because of it.  I certainly don’t want to post a question in there… for fear I’d get roasted for something that wasn’t apparent to me.  It just drives me crazy because I always thought that kinky people took pride in being open and friendly with each other… I guess that doesn’t apply in that group.