>Saturday night we had a poker party at our place as I said in an earlier post. It was… an interesting night to say the least. I got up at 5:30 am on Saturday and did not make it to bed till almost 6:00 am on Sunday.

Work was hell that day.. it was very busy… too much work and not enough time to do it in. Needless to say I was happy to come home. I got off at 2:30 pm. I went home and posted a blog… showered and then our friend Smith showed up.

He needed to go shopping for some new jeans… and so we all piled into Ben’s car and went around. We got home around six. The guys started setting up the table and chairs and I started fixing our dinner-nachoes.

Everyone showed up around seven. There was lots of booze involved and we were having a great time. I won the first hand of the night… which is always nice. I think in all I only won three hands though… but whatever.. it’s not about the money.. it was about having fun.

As the night progressed my brother in law and husband were very drunk… along with two of our girl friends. This is where the guys started asking to see boobs (their word lol). At first it was only cleavage… fearing that my sister and I would be upset…. which is NOT the case. I said I really didn’t care.

So this is when the breasts came out of the bras. There were tons of pics taken and I started calling Ben the porn director (only because he’d be like “Jan… what do you have for me now?”). Soon this settled down and Smith took off a little after elevan because he had to be at work early the next day.

Around midnight my sister and her husband took off and all that was left was Gail and Jan. We all sat around and bs’ed and in this process I found something out about my ex (funny… Gail is my ex’s ex… weird huh?). This disturbed me greatly.. and as I cannot go into details.. I will say I’m sorry for that.

Shortly after that… they left… and I told Ben about what I found out… he was very pissed about it. I knew I wouldn’t sleep unless I knew the truth and so I went to his parents house (where he lives) to find out the truth.

I got the truth.. and all hell broke loose. The whole family ended up coming over… and there was drama galoure. It was a nightmare. It didn’t finally simmer down until around 5:30 am… and Ben and I went home.

The party was a blast.. we had a great time.. I just wish the after part had not happened. It was not fun at all. Now the whole family is just trying to get past it and pick up the peices… and thats always fun.